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Learn to love again…

Love is something that we all seek very much, yet we still work against it and push our loved ones far away from us. Not everyone finds it easy to express their feelings; people often feel embarrassed expressing their emotions. This would be one of our most natural instincts, we are born with it so why do we hide it away deeply inside us? Is it pride, fear or something else?

It’s difficult to recognise because whilst we’re looking for the one, we don’t understand the process of falling in and out of love. We are so damaged from the previous relationship(s) that we are not ready to love again. Maybe you haven’t had time to put a closure on the past. Maybe it was not your decision to end the relationship or had no power over it.

It took me a while to realise that this was the reason I have not been able to find new love. I realised that I can’t love. I’m unable to give love as I have dried out, exhausted my feelings, I have given so much that I have nothing left to give for now… you might need some time investing to rejuvenate your feelings.

I was unable to love because my past was destroying my present. It’s a bizarre thing, but it makes sense when you think about it. How would you be able to let anyone close to your heart if someone still occupies it? Before you can trust anyone new to love, you will have to clear your thoughts, beliefs and release yourself from the past.

This is not an overnight process but it’s worth it in the end because you will find the right person to let into your life. You can’t make a mistake by being with someone who is just there temporarily for you to feel better about yourself; no love can be found in that relationship.

“One day someone is going to hold you so tight that all your broken pieces are going to fit back together.” – Tom Hiddleston

When you had the chance to reflect on your life, and have cleared out all the past and the negative feelings, you will be ready to learn to love again. Tiredness will go, self-motivation comes back and you will have new dreams to follow and thrive for original viagra.

One day...

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